{"id":19,"date":"2026-09-30T16:10:21","date_gmt":"2026-09-30T16:10:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/odu.org\/?page_id=19"},"modified":"2026-09-30T16:10:21","modified_gmt":"2026-09-30T16:10:21","slug":"dating-red-green-flags","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/odu.org\/index.php\/dating-red-green-flags\/","title":{"rendered":"Red Flags and Green Flags"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1>Red Flags and Green Flags<\/h1>\n<p class=\"lead\">Instead of searching for a perfect checklist, pay attention to repeated behaviors and how a connection affects your sense of safety and clarity.<\/p>\n<h2>Green flags<\/h2>\n<p>Consistency, respect for boundaries, curiosity, honest communication, accountability, and plans that turn into actions are generally useful signals.<\/p>\n<h2>Red flags<\/h2>\n<p>Pressure, repeated dishonesty, requests for money, extreme jealousy, disrespect for boundaries, threats, or attempts to isolate you deserve serious attention.<\/p>\n<h2>Context matters<\/h2>\n<p>An awkward message is not necessarily a character diagnosis. Look at patterns, severity, and whether someone can hear feedback and adjust their behavior.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Red Flags and Green Flags Instead of searching for a perfect checklist, pay attention to repeated behaviors and how a connection affects your sense of safety and clarity. Green flags Consistency, respect for boundaries, curiosity, honest communication, accountability, and plans that turn into actions are generally useful signals. Red flags Pressure, repeated dishonesty, requests for [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"hero_heading":"","hero_subheading":"","footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-19","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/odu.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/19","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/odu.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/odu.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/odu.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/odu.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/odu.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/19\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":35,"href":"https:\/\/odu.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/19\/revisions\/35"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/odu.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}